Autistic Couple

WEIRD COUPLE? --> That's us.

I know we are and I'm proud about it. Pero syempre hindi mo minsan maiiwasan yung reaction ng ibang tao.

A friend told me that what my guy and I have right now is beyond the norm of an ideal relationship or a typical one - the getting to know stage, the courtship stage, then the officially couple stage, sexy time and endless outpour of love and all that shit.

Ang sa akin lang, do we have to follow the norm? What if naging kayo because you simply like each other and you want to be with each other? Kahit walang ligawan. What if we are just creating our own love story in such a way na alam namin na tama, sakto, less drama, less cheesiness, less complication. At hindi kami sumusunod sa typical love story na nagligawan, na inlove, naging sila, lagi magkasama, na tipong parang telenovela sa telebisyon.

Kami ang nasa relationship, kaya kami din magpapatakbo neto, in such a way na alam namin tama at masaya. I don't know why other people were surprised because we don't say I love you's to each other. In my opinion, I don't think it's appropriate or normal na on the first three months in your relationship, you two are saying I love you na. Kasi love is not a one shot deal e, love is earned through time so I guess it's too premature for us to say I love you. Am i right??

But don't get me wrong, I like him very much, he's like a cherry on my ice cream, a sprinkle for my doughnut, a chocolate syrup for my waffles and we are taking things slowly. Kasi sa akin, mas okay yung magstart kami na relax lang then through time it will grow, the feelings will grow, kesa naman sa una sobrang love niyo isa't-isa - na para kayo si Romeo and Juliet na halos kayo lang ang tao sa mundong ibabaw na hindi kayo mabubuhay without your partner - tapos after noon, nagdedecline na yung feelings at mauuwi lang sa masaklap na Kris-James hiwalayan (all time fave talaga ang kris-james hiwalayan! woot!).

On sweetness.

A friend also told me I'm not daw sweet, I guess I'm not but I know myself, I know I'm sweet in my own little way.

Sweet na hindi hopeless romantic, sweet na hindi PDA na mushy na nakakasuka. Oh well, I tried to be open, so I asked my friend, so kung hindi ako sweet ano gagawin ko, that friend said:

1) Kiss him on the neck

reaction: what??? out of the blue? kiss sa neck?? hell no!

2) Kiss him then suddenly whisper "i love you" to his ear

reaction: oh-uh, that is sooooo not me, too hopeless romantic, eck! hindi ko kaya!!

3) Or utter the words like "thank you for coming into my life, for making me happy" bla bla bla

Gosh, I don't know, but I found those things overrated. Para bang sa isang brand na it's too commercialized. And I don't find it sweet, i guess it's boring.

Pero syempre, siguro magagawa ko yan pag one year na kami, pero like right now we are on our 3rd month, and trying to beat the three months milestone, i guess, again, and i'm saying it, it's too premature for us to do those stuffs. Tell me I'm wrong people but it's not really my thing. and I know it's not his thing too. We are just being practical, so why follow the norm, or follow what those romantic movies are telling us - seriously, those shits are polluting our mind.

yung mga line na "you are my sunshine after the rain" or mga "I can't live when living is with out you" - or ikanga sa Bulgarian Idol " Ken Lee (search niyo sa you-tube kung gusto niyo makarelate) lol. Yung tipong over sa chever-loo. Pwede naman na like niyo isa't-isa, nagtutulungan kayo bilang partner, nagtatawanan kayo, lumalamon together, nagaasaran, naghahampasan - pwede naman ganun diba? Pero bakit hindi nila mainitindihan, bakit daw hindi normal ang relationship namin? okay ganto na lang

OO NA ABNORMAL KAMI!!! bwahahah